In my guitar-strumming days, I used to enjoy playing and
singing a Twila Paris song entitled “The Joy of the Lord is My Strength.” It was an upbeat song with a catchy tune,
performed with lots of country music-style twang. The lyrics had something to
do with walking by faith and not being afraid, but I always found the title
perplexing. To me, joy and strength were two totally different characteristics.
I could understand how a person could be joyful AND strong, but I couldn’t
quite grasp how joy could BE strength.
Fast forward a couple of decades to a time in my life when I
really needed strength…..a time when I was weak from battling health problems.
I needed emotional and spiritual strength to fight the fear that comes with
illness, and I needed physical strength to overcome the nausea and pain brought
on by my illness. At the time, the pastor of my church was preaching from the
book of Philippians, which teaches us that we can have joy in all
circumstances. My circumstances were certainly not joyful, but I learned that I
could still find joy in my relationship with the Lord.
My illness required major surgery, and for a couple of weeks
after I was discharged, I was housebound. On Sundays I grieved because I
couldn’t go to church. Since I couldn’t
attend church, I watched the service on line. Sitting on my sofa, I sang the
worship songs along with the choir, and for a few brief moments, I forgot that I
was hurting and simply praised.
When I was able to return to church and choir practice, I
did so with a renewed appreciation of the privilege
of corporate worship. There is
something special about joining with other like-minded believers, enjoying
their fellowship, hearing God’s word and singing His praises.
I was uplifted. My spirit soared as I sang each chorus as
loudly and clearly as I could. I delighted in hearing my voice blend with the
voices around me. I was thrilled to be among God’s people once again. These were the people who prayed for me, sat
in the waiting room of the hospital, brought me meals, texted and emailed to
check on me. It was a joy to be with them in person again. It was a joy to be
in the Father’s presence, to feel His Holy Spirit in that room. I completely
forgot my aches and pains. I laid aside
every fear or worry and instead focused on our awesome God. I felt strong. The joy of the Lord was my
strength.
Nehemiah Chapter 8 tells about a gathering of God’s people,
too. God’s people were returning from exile, and under Nehemiah’s leadership,
(despite opposition), they had rebuilt the walls of Jerusalem. The people
gathered into the square to listen Ezra and Nehemiah read from the Book of the
Law of Moses. The people listened attentively
as the Scriptures were read and explained, and then they prayed and
worshiped. The people wept as they heard
the words of the Law.
“And
Nehemiah, who was the governor, and Ezra the priest and scribe, and the Levites
who taught the people said to all the people, ‘This day is holy to the Lord
your God; do not mourn or weep.’ For all the people wept as they heard the
words of the Law. Then he said to them,
‘Go your way. Eat the fat and drink
sweet wine and send portions to anyone who has nothing ready, for this day is
holy to our Lord. And do not be grieved,
for the joy of the Lord is your strength.” Nehemiah 8:9-10
Perhaps they wept
because they recognized how often they had failed to keep God’s
commandments. But Nehemiah and Ezra
entreated them not to weep but to celebrate, to focus not on their sins but on
the greatness of God. They were to rejoice, and in rejoicing, they would find
strength to complete their task. Sometimes it is appropriate to grieve and to
mourn our sins, but for the Jews this was to be a time of rejoicing.
When we’re joyful, our difficulties don’t seem so
insurmountable. Our work doesn’t feel
like drudgery. Merriment lightens our load.
Proverbs
17:22 says, “A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the
bones.” It’s good to laugh. Laughter has therapeutic value.
When I was sick, I found it was important to keep things in
perspective and look for the humor in my circumstances. A good laugh would
cheer me up. Well, actually, right after having abdominal surgery, I found that
a hearty belly laugh was painful, but even then my husband and I could make a
joke out of the pain.
“Hey, did you hear the one about….,” and he’d begin to tell
a joke.
“Don’t make me laugh! It hurts to laugh!” I’d say. I couldn’t
help smiling, but I did try to repress that belly laugh.
I tend to be serious-minded.
For a long time, the concept of rejoicing in all circumstance was an
idea that I couldn’t quite grasp. I think I confused it with stoicism; that is,
when life was tough, I thought God meant for me to steel myself and say through
gritted teeth, “I’m rejoicing.” But I’m
learning that God actually does want us to laugh and celebrate, even when
trials come our way. That doesn’t mean we have to be happy ABOUT our trials.
(As in, “Oh, great! More pain! Bring it on!) But in the middle of our pain, we
can still find reasons to celebrate, while we trust that God will use our pain
for greater good.
So I’m learning to lighten up and rejoice. Here are a few
things that helped me find that Happy Place:
1.
Music. Singing
and music bring me joy. When I’m down, if I listen to Praise and Worship Music
and begin singing along, my mood changes.
2.
Mindfulness. Choose to focus on what is good
instead of what is wrong. Philippians
4:6-7 tells us not to worry about anything, but to pray about everything. Prayer is the remedy for worry, and
Philippians 8 gives us the “vitamins” that help keep us spiritually healthy and
worry-free: After we pray and entrust God with our problems, we should let our
minds dwell on what’s RIGHT, not what’s wrong. We should focus on what’s TRUE,
instead of listening to the damaging lies of the enemy. We should meditate on
the LOVELY things, and we have only to look at creation to find many lovely
things to appreciate. If there is anything WORTHY of PRAISE, ---and of course
there are many praiseworthy things---we should let our minds dwell on these
things.
3.
Jokes. Finding humor in my situation helped to
lighten the load. It helps if I don’t take myself too seriously, if I can laugh
at my problems and mistakes. I’m learning to change my image of Jesus, too. I used to picture Him as stern, or even sad
(after all, He was called the Man of Sorrows), but now I imagine him as joyful.
When He said, “Rejoice and be glad,” He probably had a smile on His face. (I found some smile-starters by doing a Google
search for “Christian cartoons.”)
4.
Joyful people.
Let’s face it; some people are just more upbeat than others. Some people
are natural cheerleaders. They remind me that God is faithful, that even though
life may be tough right now, things will get better. When I’m down, I seek out
these cheerleaders. They make me laugh, and that’s good medicine!
Habakkuk said,
“Though the fig tree does not bud
And there are no grapes on the vine,
Though the olive crop fails
And the fields produce no food, though there are no sheep in the pen
And no cattle in the stalls
Yet I will rejoice in the Lord,
I will be joyful in God my Savior.
The Sovereign Lord is my strength;
He makes my feet like the feet of a deer;
He enables me to go on the heights.”
Hab. 3:17-19
Could Habakkuk really rejoice if everything
around him were to come crashing down, if he lost his livelihood, if he had no
food on his table? How could he endure it? Would there be a smile on his
face--a genuine, spontaneous smile? Would he still laugh and joke and
sing? Would he be partying?
Now
that I’ve experienced firsthand the joy of the Lord, I believe I know what
Habakkuk meant when the said, “I will be joyful in God my Savior. The Sovereign
Lord is my strength.” He could look at his circumstances and say, “It’s all OK.
I have a relationship with the God of
the universe, and He is in control of everything that is happening. My troubles are only temporary. One day, God
is going to make everything right. He gives me strength for whatever comes my
way. He enables me to rise above my circumstances.” And that’s a happy thought. The joy of the
Lord is my strength. When I am joyful, I feel strong.
Rejoicing in Him,
Margaret
Here’s a link to Twila Paris singing “The Joy of the Lord”:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLOSZ7NwMlY
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